How to make friends at Uni: Building real connections
By Hello Student
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Starting university is one of life’s biggest adventures, and making friends is undoubtedly one of the most exciting and important parts of the experience. Yet it’s completely normal to feel nervous about meeting new people, especially when you’re navigating unfamiliar surroundings and possibly living away from home for the first time.
Whether you’re moving into a cosy studio, sharing a flat with strangers, or settling into a bustling student house, there are countless opportunities to form genuine connections. The key is knowing where to look and having the confidence to put yourself out there. This guide covers practical tips for how to make friends at uni who will enrich your university years and potentially last a lifetime.
How to meet people at uni in your first week of university
Your first week sets the tone for your entire university experience, making it the perfect time to establish connections. Everyone’s guard is down, people are eager to meet others, and there’s a shared sense of excitement and nervousness that naturally brings students together.
Living in shared accommodation?
Your flatmates are your first social circle.
If you’re fortunate enough to be living in shared accommodation, your flatmates represent your immediate social circle and often become some of your closest university friends.
Start simple by saying hello when you move in. Even a quick chat whilst unpacking or a friendly introduction in the kitchen can lay the foundation for lasting friendships.
Group chats are brilliant for co-ordination and getting to know each-other. Whether it’s organising who’s buying milk, or simply sharing funny memes, these digital conversations help break down barriers and create a sense of community within your shared space.
Plan an activity to do together; A takeaway night where everyone orders from the same restaurant, a movie evening in the social area, or even a group supermarket trip can transform you from strangers to friends.
Living alone in a studio?
Go to events and hang out in the social areas.
Studio living doesn’t mean missing out on the social aspects of university life. In fact, it can give you more control over your social interactions whilst still providing plenty of opportunities to meet people.
Make the most of your accommodation’s social areas. Whether it’s the common room, study spaces, or kitchen areas, these spaces are designed for interaction. The Hello Student team will often be around for a chat to help break any initial awkwardness, bringing students together to build a genuine community through organised events and casual hangouts.
Don’t be shy about putting yourself out there. If you see people chatting in communal areas, count to three and join the conversation. These spontaneous interactions often lead to the most authentic friendships.
First year freshers’ week is your social springboard
Freshers’ week is a key part of student life and it exists specifically to help new students settle in and make connections, so embrace it fully. Attend introduction events, society fairs, and meet-ups, even if you’re going solo. Remember, most people attending these events are also looking to make friends, creating a natural environment for connection.
Societies and sports clubs are goldmines for meeting people with shared interests. Whether you’re passionate about photography, curious about rock climbing, or want to try something completely new, joining a society gives you instant common ground with like-minded individuals. The structured nature of these groups takes the pressure off individual interactions whilst providing regular opportunities to deepen friendships.
Be open to invites, even if they push you slightly outside your comfort zone.
Making friends beyond your accommodation
Whilst your living situation provides immediate social opportunities, if you are struggling to make friends at uni, some of your most meaningful university friendships may develop through your academic life and broader university involvement.
In lectures and seminars
Your course mates will be constant companions throughout your university journey, making them natural friendship candidates. The shared experience of navigating the same academic challenges creates an instant bond and provides endless conversation topics.
Make an effort to introduce yourself to people sitting near you in lectures and seminars.
Suggest forming study groups or grabbing coffee after particularly challenging classes. Academic collaboration naturally leads to personal connections, and there’s something bonding about struggling through difficult concepts together.
Online communities can help too
Digital spaces play an increasingly important role in university social life. Join your course or university’s student social groups on platforms like Facebook, Discord, or WhatsApp. These communities often share valuable information about social events, study sessions, and informal meet-ups.
Follow Hello Student’s local social channels to stay updated about resident events and community activities.
Tips for building meaningful friendships
Creating lasting friendships requires patience, authenticity, and emotional intelligence. Understanding how genuine connections develop can help you navigate the social landscape of university life more effectively.
Real connections take time to develop, so don’t worry if friendships don’t feel instant or effortless immediately.
Start with small conversations and shared activities rather than expecting immediate deep connections. Chat about weekend plans, complain about difficult assignments together, or bond over shared interests like favourite TV shows or music.
Remember that not every person you meet will become a close friend, and that’s perfectly okay. Focus on quality over quantity and allow relationships to develop organically.
Struggling to make friends at university?
We understand that making friends at university isn’t always straightforward, especially when your living environment doesn’t naturally facilitate easy connections.
Sometimes the difficulty in making friends stems from accommodation that isn’t designed with social interaction in mind. Sterile environments, lack of communal spaces, or geographical isolation from campus can make forming connections feel like an uphill battle. Hello Student could be the solution you’re looking for.
Our accommodation provides strong student support and actively creates opportunities for residents to connect through carefully planned events and social spaces specifically designed for interaction. We understand that the physical environment plays a crucial role in fostering friendships, and our properties reflect this philosophy.
How Hello Student makes connecting easier
Hello Student residences regularly host social events, welcome weeks, and community initiatives that bring residents together in relaxed, fun environments. These organised activities take the pressure off individual students to create social opportunities whilst providing structured ways to meet like-minded people.
Remember that everyone around you is navigating similar challenges and excitement. By approaching social situations with empathy and openness, you’ll discover that building meaningful connections is not only possible but inevitable.
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